Why is this happening to me? (Part 1)
Every pilgrim on this journey must suffer some storms
in life. If you have lived long enough,
you have suffered some pain, some heartache.
It is not if the storms will
come, it is when the storms will
come.
Thomas
Paine, one of our early founding fathers was seeing a storm approaching the
colonies when he said: “These are the
times that try men's souls: The summer
soldier and the sunshine patriot
will, in this crisis, shrink from the service of his country.”
How
many young Christians have started out on the journey only to be confronted by
a treacherous storm and then they threw in the towel, saying: “This is not for me.” They were ‘summer soldiers’ and ‘sunshine
patriots’. When they were eating the
summer fruits and experiencing the thrill of victory after victory they were
happy and content. But when they
experienced their ‘Valley Forge’ the ‘sunshine
patriots’ were ready to quit.
Acts
27 is a marvelous piece of literature.
It tells the story of Paul and some other prisoners who were loaded onto
a ship to be taken to Rome. Paul must
surely have doubted that he could be tried fairly for his Christian beliefs in pagan
Rome. The future must have looked pretty bleak for him but we don’t see Paul
moping about the ship feeling sorry for himself. Instead, Paul was transforming a desperate
situation into an opportunity to witness to the scores of prisoners who were
soon to be used as bait for the lions and entertainment for the masses.
Paul
issues a warning: “Men, I can see that
our voyage is going to be disastrous and bring great loss to ship and cargo,
and to our own lives also.” But the centurion, instead of listening to what
Paul said, followed the advice of the pilot and of the owner of the ship.” (v.
10, 11)
“When a gentle south wind began to blow,
they saw their opportunity; so they weighed anchor and sailed along the shore
of Crete. Before very long, a wind of hurricane force, called the Northeaster,
swept down from the island. The ship was caught by the storm and could not head
into the wind; so we gave way to it and were driven along.” V. 13-15
The
men in this boat reached deeply into their maritime experience to try every
trick they could think of in their attempt to survive. First, they tried to bind the hull of the boat
together with ropes to keep it from
splitting to pieces. Then they began to throw
cargo (wheat from Egypt) overboard in order to save themselves.
“When neither sun nor stars appeared for many
days and the storm continued raging, we finally gave up all hope of
being saved.” (v. 20)
How tragic it is when a soul has
given up all hope. Not long ago, Michael
Jackson’s daughter tried to commit suicide. She had surely ‘given up all hope.’
But hope is always there in the worst
storm, in the deepest valley and sadly, people can’t see it, they can’t sense
its presence and some give up.
“My
hope is built on nothing less Than Jesus’ blood and righteousness.”
When the
storm was raging at its worst, Paul rose up to speak: “Last night an angel of the God to whom I
belong and whom I serve stood beside me and
said, ‘Do not be afraid, Paul. You must stand trial before Caesar; and
God has graciously given you the lives of all who sail with you.’ So keep up your courage, men, for I have
faith in God that it will happen just as he told me.” (v. 23-25)
What
are some of the reasons this is happening to me?
1.
Sometimes we bring the storm on ourselves. God
asked Jonah to go preach in Nineveh but Jonah did an about face and high-tailed
it to Tarsus where he had an unfortunate encounter with a big fish. We often bring the storm upon ourselves
because of disobedience.
Paul
was probably the only Christian on the boat.
He was a man of God. But “instead
of listening to what Paul said” they took advice from non-Christians, from
pagans.
I
often see young people who are feeling anxiety about their future. They gather about them a list of people who
might give them advice and this seems like a wise thing to do but they often go
down the list until they find enough people to tell them what they want to hear
and then they are off to do what they want to do. This is foolishness dressed in wisdom’s
clothing.
“When
a gentle south wind began to blow” they cast off. Don’t be deceived by the “gentle south winds”
in life.
We
should first get on our knees before God and then seek council from those
Christians who have learned lessons that can only be learned from being
battered by the storms of life.
2. Sometimes
God brings storms into our lives. He
sent Job through a horrific
storm. He asked Abraham to sacrifice his own son.
There are many instances recorded in the word of God that indicate His
willingness to subject us to great difficulties in order to test our faith.
Jesus told his disciples to get in the boat and cross the
sea. They encountered a terrific
storm. He knew they would. The best learning takes place in the storm,
not when the “gentle south wind” blows. The storms God brings into our lives
are opportunities to bring glory to Him.
3. Sometimes
others bring storms into our lives. I’ve
done some marriage counseling for engaged couples. A week before the marriage they are basking
in the ‘warmth of the south wind’. The
tempest has not yet come. God sanctifies
us in our marriages. What better way to
teach you the fruits of the Spirit than to match you up with someone NOT like
you. What magic is shared by the older
couple that makes them so sweet after fifty years of marriage? It wasn’t the “gentle south wind” that did
it. It was enduring and learning from
the storms of life that created sanctified sweetness in their character.
I met a man a few weeks ago. I observed him in the setting we were in for
a couple of hours. He has a severely
handicapped granddaughter that he and his wife have permanent custody of. I
watched him love her and dote over her and constantly worry about whether she
was comfortable. It was obvious to me,
as I watched, what impact the grandfather was having on the life of the
granddaughter. I left wondering what affect
the granddaughter was having on the grandfather. It must be a difficult trial to be burdened
with someone so needy.
Several
weeks later I discovered that a lot of people in my circle knew this man. He was associated with a former church that I
was also associated with. I began to ask, “Do you know Mr. Taylor?” “Oh yes, what a wonderful man of God.” He didn’t become a wonderful man of God by
accident. He didn’t attain his deep
spirituality and close walk with the Savior by basking in the “gentle south
winds”. There is little doubt he was purified by the
fiery trials of his life.
If
you have the courage to pray to be more Christ-like expect to endure some very
difficult storms. The storm is God’s
chisel to knock off the rough places in your character.
Kevin Probst - Teaches Bible and Apologetics at Lafayette Christian School in Lagrange, GA.
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